I’m a guy, 26, single and a medical professional. Recently, I met a student nurse at the hospital where I work. I liked her on the spot and approached her. I got her number and tried communicating with her, but she sounded rude, so I stopped texting her. A few weeks later, I met another girl. This new girl is pretty and cool but not as attractive to me as the first girl. Just a few days into the talking stage with the new girl, she’s so into me. We talk all the time, and if I don’t text her for hours, she’ll text and check on me. She comes to my workplace to see me. She said she’s in a relationship but likes me and needs time to end her relationship.
She said the only thing they do in the relationship is argue. We are still talking, and she came to my house. Along the line, we had swx. A few days later, I bumped into the first girl again at work. We talked again, and she was now sounding nicer. She accepted to go out on a date with me. A few days after the date, she came to my house, and we had sex. The new girl is more intentional with me; she always checks up on me but has yet to show me that she is officially done with her boyfriend. As for the first girl, she doesn’t check up on me unless I check up on her. Now I don’t know who to keep up with, the first or the second girl.