I am currently in two talking stages that want to lead to dating (they’ve both asked me out). Both guys are responsible and mature, and they feel ready to settle down. One person lives in the USA, and the other is in the same state as me. Although I haven’t met either of them in person yet, we’ve been talking on the phone for only three weeks. Recently, I fell ill and went to the hospital, where I was diagnosed with malaria. It’s been two days since then, and both guys have been checking on me. The one in the USA even sent me money and arranged for his cousin to visit me since I live alone. She brought provisions and fruits as well. However, the guy in the same state as me hasn’t shown any concern. Despite being close by and working from home, he hasn’t made an effort to visit or offer support. While money isn’t the main issue, his lack of attention worries me. I’m struggling to decide between them. To me, these small gestures matter a lot. What do you think? Who should I choose? It’s worth mentioning that the guy in the same state as me is very wealthy.
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