I met a guy around last month. My friend and I walked up to him to advertise my business (I sell perfumes). I gave him my number so he could text me, and we’d save each other’s contact. For days, this guy did not text me until later when we met again, and I asked him why he didn’t text me. He apologized and texted me that night. We got talking, and I started liking this guy. He’s cute and fair, and he told me he’s single, that he just left a one-year relationship recently. He said they broke up because the ex-girlfriend was the jealous type. We started talking deeply, and he said he likes me too. I made him invite me over to his place, and he ordered a body mist, which I took to his place. This guy is so neat, and everything was in check. I forgot to mention that he has a car and is doing okay on his own, more than okay for his age. In my mind, I’ve found a boyfriend because I’ve been single for months.
I left the same day, and days later he invited me again. One thing led to another, and we made out. I left the following day. When I was at his place, I wanted to change into one of his polos, and I found a lady’s nightwear. I confronted him, and he said they were for his ex-girlfriend. He told me he would find a way to get them to her or dispose of them later. A few days after I left his place, this guy started acting strange. He no longer chatted with me, and it would take forever for him to reply to my texts. Again, I noticed that once it’s the weekend, he won’t even reply or call back. He gave a lot of excuses for this action. I felt like he was getting tired of me. One day, he told me he could not continue seeing me because he was told that I am bad luck to his life. He said ever since he laid with me, things had started going backward for him. I felt so bad because I was so much in love and obsessed with him. I had to lie to him that I was pregnant.
I sent him a positive pregnancy test, and he said I should go and do a proper test because he needed to be sure it was his. He wanted to see the scan and everything showing how old the pregnancy was. I told him I didn’t want to keep it, but he insisted on seeing a proper test. I kept trying to sort things out, but he refused. I opened up to him about being bad luck because my ex told me the same thing. I went to an Alfa that time, and the man told me I have bad luck and that whoever has s£x with me will go back to square one. My ex left me because of this same issue when he started losing his properties. He blocked me that night, saying he’s close to poor, and I should not even text him again. He kept blocking all my numbers and on all platforms that we used to talk on. He told me that he found a solution to his problem and that I should go and find a solution to the bad luck on me. Is he not supposed to stay with me if he loves me as he claimed?
I was so pained, and I couldn’t even sleep. I called my mom, and she said I should go to church, and she prayed for me too. One day, I checked through his IG followers list, and I found a lady using his picture as her profile picture. I went through her profile, and this girl is hot with a nice shape and tattoos on her body. I saw some of her pictures that were shot in this guy’s apartment and also inside his car. Then I said to myself, “This is the ex-girlfriend he told me about.” I followed her and tried to message her, but my message was in requests. I deleted it and texted her on her business page (she mentioned it in her bio). I dropped some texts for her that midnight. I said a lot and even cur$€d her, telling her to let me enjoy my boyfriend, that I’ve not had enough of him. She did not open the chat for like five hours, so I texted her on WhatsApp through the WhatsApp link on the business page bio.
The next morning, this girl replied. At first, she was calm and ready to hear what I had to say, but later she got angry. She made me know that they’ve been dating for almost five years, and they see each other almost every day, plus they live close to each other. She added that she has never been his ex for one day. She was saying everything with confidence. Then I told her I’m pregnant for him, and she sent me loads of laughing emojis. She said, “How can you open your legs for a stranger you met within a week? How can you think he’s single when you saw him?” I let her know he lied to me, but she was so much on his side. I was so surprised because my plan of texting her was to scatter everything so they could fight. She said if I was truly pregnant, I should know what to do, or else I go cry pass the baby. She stopped replying for hours, and finally, she came back online to blast me. 😭😭
She said I was supposed to check his page to find her account before I opened my legs, and she added that I don’t need a boyfriend right now. Rather, I should work on the bad luck on me (probably he had told her about me). They don use my matter laugh. According to her, “You guys will never learn. This will serve as a lesson for you and other people that use their small businesses to enter guys at the mall, and those of you looking for a ready-made man. You people are just using phones, you’re not wise at all. She said go and follow Rantandtalkz on IG to know when and how to open legs (she made me know about this page). I sent many voice notes to her, but she did not open them before she blocked me off. 😭😭 Ayo, you and your girlfriend will not know peace wherever you are. I’m so pained, but I love this boy.
What can I do to have him to myself? I’ve tried a lot of things I saw on IG street and the ones my friend taught me. I used another account to check her page yesterday, and they are still very much together. They even went on dates. 😭😭 It seems this girl is his backbone, and dem no fit separate.
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