I have been with this guy for over 7 months now, and we’ve been trying to work things out. He loves me, and I love him right back. He has never cheated on me, and I’m very faithful. We both live in the same country, but for 2 months now, I have been away due to some hard times. He’s a personal shopper and has a business page. Recently, he’s been trying to run ads and looking for influencers to pay so they can promote his business. I recently got traffic on my page due to a comment I made on one of these blogs. So, I told him to send a video of his business so I could post it on my story since I have a good audience today.
He sent it, and I posted it. He commented on it and told me thank you. I also sent this video to some of my friends who have followers on IG, even some guys, just so they help me broadcast it, begging them that it’s my boyfriend’s brand and all. They all agreed and posted it, even tagged the page. He saw the tags and asked who they were. I told him those were my friends; I sent the video to them. I’m like just tell them thank you and also repost the video on your business page. He said he wasn’t going to repost them, and I asked why. He said he didn’t know them; he only responded to the girls and said thank you. For the guys, he never did. He went ahead to say he didn’t send them and if the guys like, he should delete the video, and that he’s never going to say anything to him.
I was so shocked. I’m like this is your business page; you’re trying to grow it. Why is it a big deal for you to repost the videos? I told him not to be ungrateful that these people did it out of love. He tried calling me as we were exchanging words on IG, but I didn’t take it because I was very angry. I called him back later; he didn’t take my call. So the next morning, my friend who posted the video sent me a VN saying what my boyfriend did wasn’t really proper. He couldn’t even appreciate the help they rendered, to even repost. It’s his business; not a personal page, and that was bad. He doesn’t even have up to 1k followers on the page, and he’s having pride to appreciate.
I sent him a very long text telling him how ungrateful he was and that he shouldn’t have acted like that. He replied and said reposting isn’t necessary and if it’s because of reposting, I’m talking plenty. I saw it and ignored it, and for the past 6 days, he hasn’t called or texted me. My birthday was yesterday, and this guy didn’t wish me happy birthday or even call or text me. This is the first birthday I’m spending with him as a girlfriend. He’s been online liking posts on blogs, and I see them. He posted a picture on WhatsApp status on my birthday. So I want to know if I was wrong for telling my friends to help his business if I was wrong for being a supportive girlfriend, and if him not even wishing me happy birthday was okay.
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