I’m hurt, yes. Am I getting over it? Gradually. My relationship with this guy is over 3 years, and I have never cheated on him, and I am faithful to date. Preparing for marriage; we already did an introduction last year, but now things just got bad. I have a gift that makes me know something might happen in my dream. I knew my fiancé was cheating in my dream so I confronted him several times. Of course, he denied it, knowing fully well about my gift, and manipulated me. He’s 42; I’m 25. His father doesn’t joke with me. My fiance is a divorcee and has a son. He was kind to me but later changed. I got to find out this particular lady has been coming to his house; she stays in ABJ. He got to the point where he asked me if I believed my dreams more than him.
After the truth was unfolded, he begged me. I tried to forgive him because he said the mum wanted that girl. His mum and I are not too close because of something she said; she stays abroad. His stepmom and his dad were my best guys, including his son. Trying to forgive him, he told me to stop going through his phone but I wasn’t having it. Then he stopped picking up my calls and replying to my messages. I had to tell his parents, the dad had been begging me to hold on because he lost his last child and needed to bury her. Then he said he was going to call me. This Monday, he called and said that he was broken because of everything I told him and still begged me to wait, and I told him I wasn’t going to take his son back.
The son is not remorseful and still did not agree to check his phone, which he never had an issue with since 2020. His son told me his dad even traveled to Lagos with the girl recently. I cried; the father almost cried because I was hurt. To forgive him is the last I want to think of; I lost so many guys because I don’t cheat, don’t double date. This shows good girls don’t pay. I’m hurt, but trusting a guy is going to be difficult for me. Sticking to one guy is not an option for me again. I hope karma visits him someday. The story is long, but I will stop here. He lied too much, and manipulated me; he had a 1-year relationship inside 3 years plus the relationship. Still, he came to do the introduction. I hope God heals me from this.
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