Lately, I feel my world crumbling right before my own eyes. I am married but not happy in the marriage at all. I just noticed gradually I fell out of love with my husband due to uncountable fights and arguments. Mostly, they are a recurrence of tiring attitudes from my husband. Mind you, I have called him many times without a number to call his attention to some of these things, but Oga sees it as me disrespecting him as he is the head of the family. I am just tired of the whole marriage thing. There is no connection between us at all. Nothing makes me happy, and I cry a lot alone.
I just feel we are not compatible, and this is beginning to affect my mental health because I am always thinking. A week will not pass by that we won’t fight. I am really confused; this is not the kind of marriage I prayed for and wanted. I don’t want it to get to the extent that I will enter depression, and one thing will now lead to another so that I won’t start thinking of suicide. Please, what do you think I should do? Quit the marriage now since it is still fresh or stay, putting hopes high that he will change? Mind you, I don’t have a child for him yet. Thank you.
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