I am 23, and my boyfriend is 27. I already concluded I was spending the rest of my life with him until we cohabitated for just 1 month. I got to know the kind of man I intended to spend the rest of my life with, and I’ve lost interest. He gaslights me all the time, and he disrespects me, especially when we argue. He calls me names and talks to me anyhow. He’s not obsessed with me, he distances himself from me. He’d leave me in the room and go sit in the sitting room alone, watching ball, movie, or pressing his phone. One day he said I’m not fine (not beautiful). I got angry, and he said he was just joking. One time again, we argued, and he left me in the room to sleep in the sitting room. I cried half of that one month, I wasn’t happy. He treated me like shit. He complained about my skin too. I had a breakout, and he just kept saying my skin is this, that, whereas he never bought me skincare products.
We’ve dated for about 1 year and a half. He didn’t let us celebrate our anniversary, and we never went on a date throughout. He kept on saying I should not make the mistake of getting pregnant yet, that he’s not ready, that if I mistakenly do, he won’t do necessary stuff like introduction or wedding, but I’ll birth the child. I asked when he would be ready, but he said he couldn’t say. I felt I was not THE ONE. This is the person I’ve imagined spending life with, someone I’ve spent a lot on, someone I’m loyal to. Worst of all, we fought, and he called me a curse to womanhood. He said I am not a blessing but a curse. I cried. He begged, but I’ll never forget. It kept ringing in my head. I’m a very beautiful and successful lady, I’m every man’s dream woman. The feelings are dying. I want to walk out of the relationship. I want my person and peace, and I know my worth. Do you think I made the right decision?
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