I have a girl I’m dating. I’ve been there for her since her higher institution days. I sorted out everything she needed and made things smooth for her during school. Unfortunately, she signed out of her ND program last month. That last month was hell for me, honestly. Things were tough, so I decided to sell some of my lands to raise money, about N6 million, to settle down with her and invest in her. Fast forward to last month, she was at my place. I decided to search her phone because I was curious why she’s always pressing her phone till midnight, even when we’re together. We fought over the issue, and she didn’t give me the phone, saying I don’t have a right to search her phone. For the past two years, I never asked for her phone. As we were dragging, she rushed to delete WhatsApp.
I don’t know—maybe I’m stup!d or too lost in love. I apologized to her, forgave her, and we continued our relationship. But today, we’re no more 😢 because I don’t understand. I did everything I could to keep her and marry her, but she didn’t know about my plans to sell the lands. One thing I noticed is that whenever I’m broke, she won’t respect me. She always feels that if I don’t give her what she needs, I’m not perfect. We had a misunderstanding this month, and she told me that if I don’t do it, some other guy will do it for her 💔. Bro to bro, I nearly went crazy. The person I wanted to sell my land for! I noticed a red flag last week when I told her I wanted us to marry this January. She ignored the text, saying she’s not ready. The person I’m dating—na me dey always post her every day for my status. She never posted me once.
Las las, we separated for my mental health because she asked me for money three days ago. I didn’t have it, and I explained, but she started nagging, saying I’m the worst because I act like a god for sending her small amounts. 😢 I’ve not recovered; I’m still on a drip since two days ago. The question is: am I overreacting/overthinking, or am I stup!d for allowing all this for two years now? I thought if you love someone, you correct them to change for good. That’s why I was hoping—not knowing SHE NO EVEN SEND ME 💔.
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