Hello guys, I am writing this in response to a rant that says, “Why do men cheat?” when, in actual sense, the question should be “Why do humans cheat?” In my experience, I would say women cheat almost at the same rate as men, if not equally. I was involved with a lady who would always say she could never be with a cheating partner. This lady would get mad if she saw me talking with another lady or if I was on a call with a lady, and because of this, we were always on and off. I later found out that she was in a serious relationship and had been with this dude even the last time we had sex. When I confronted her, she said she was only with the dude because he is kind and intentional. I am currently involved with a married lady. This lady would tell me about her husband’s cheating habit and how it made her sad and even cry her eyes out, but here she is, cheating on her husband with me. And my question is, “If you despise the act of cheating so much, why are you engaging in it yourself?”
It’s not just a sexual relationship, as she would gift me, call me, and we would be chatting for hours, like she’s already catching feelings. Look at Ijoba Lande’s wife—a woman that was married with due process, and another man knack her with just truth or dare. A woman would divorce her husband because of his cheating habit only to start dating another married man, therefore causing pain to another woman. How about paternity fraud, which is so common in our society? The truth is, most people don’t mind cheating—they only get mad when they are the ones being cheated on. And I am not excluded. The best you can do is look for someone with good morals, values, and standards, and that doesn’t even guarantee that they will not cheat. Just expect less from humans, because at the end of the day, humans will always be humans. Shalom.
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