Surrogacy Or Egg Donation

Hi Rantz fam, I need you guys’ honest advice. So the story is kinda long, but to shorten it, I’m a 19 year old girl in need of help, and I already found help although I can’t call it help. So I have an option between going for surrogacy or egg donation. I really don’t want to go for any because I’m uncomfortable with it and I don’t want it, but this trouble is huge. I don’t like the idea of probably having a child outside, and also I’m still young and don’t want to have a child because I’m really scared, but these are the only options available because I have tried hookup; it’s not working. I begged families; still not working. I even went far to online to beg rich people; they still don’t answer me. I keep tagging rich people for help. I comment on their story but to no avail. So then I asked AI to give me a list of hospitals that offer surrogacy and egg donation, and I already saw one and we talked. For surrogacy, the total of what they will be spending on me, they are the ones providing accommodation, medical treatment, utilities, is 2.6 million plus. And if it is egg donation, they will pay me 180,000 naira, and it is a duration of 2 weeks, which they will provide shelter and food for me.

So my initial thoughts were I would go for egg donation, but honestly the money is nothing compared to my problem, and also it would be difficult for me to miss school because we would soon be writing our exam, and also I don’t want to have a child somewhere. So I’m now considering going for surrogacy, and the money is much and also enough for me, but I’m really scared. Like, what if I die? Imagine me being at the risk of death for a child that is not mine, and it is also my first pregnancy. And even if I want to wait for the egg donation, I might have died before then, and also I don’t know when my period will come. Please help me, Rantz family.

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