I’m confused on something so I need other people’s opinion on it. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now; we met in school, but he’s a graduate now while I’m in 300 level. Our relationship has always been the ‘God when’ type—no history of cheating, no show offs—but mutual friends know how beautiful it is. My boyfriend has always reminded me of how much he loves me and I do the same too, he’s always giving me words of affirmation which was one of the reasons why I fell in love with him in the first place, but of recent I’ve noticed his withdrawal from me, he doesn’t tell me his plans until I ask, no words of affirmation any longer, he doesn’t spend time with me anymore. Before now anytime I go to visit, we play games, read stories on this page, gist and so on, but now, we never do any of these.
He’ll press his phone from morning to night, he’ll even leave me in the house to go and spend time with his friends—sometimes the whole day. Friends that he has been spending time with before I came. If I spend 3 days at his place, 40% of the time he’s out with friends, spends 40% on his phone and 15% talking with his sister. I’ve asked and asked and complained; he said nothing is wrong and I haven’t offended him, which is true ‘cause I know I haven’t done anything wrong. He promised to change but he only changes for a few hours and goes back to how he was before I complained, I’m getting fed up, I’m tired of complaining, I no longer feel the connection and I don’t know what else to do, I’d love to hear people’s opinion on this, please, because it looking like I don’t know what I’m saying anymore.
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