I met this guy in 2021. We started dating in 2022. Everything was going well a little. He is a businessman. I’d ask for assistance from him, he would give me excuses. He told me he doesn’t have money (even to start up my business because I learnt lashes). He even told me to stop posting my business online. I would understand because my parents and siblings do give me money. I’m a student though. When we were having a conversation, he said he gave his ex N200k to fix her expenses. I was confused. I didn’t say anything until the call ended. I was trying to process what he said. Meanwhile, we haven’t had sex though (I’m still a virgin). He said we should make out. I told him no because he doesn’t rate me at all. He said no money but he got himself a new iPhone 14 Pro Max. He sent me N15k to manage. I was just bittered, not that I’m feeling entitled to his money but he’s using it to rub my face. Because of his attitude I didn’t allow him have sex with me. I confronted him about his ex, he was yelling at me. I just decided to end it because it’s not worth it at all.
Now he’s going around telling people he invested in me! People came to tell me and I told them everything. They were shocked. He took me to buy things in the supermarket. He was the one selecting what he wants for me, not what I want. I cried in the supermarket. The owner held me and told me not to cry. So with this his attitude towards me, money, and his ex, was I supposed to let him have s€x with me? Or am I the one at fault here? I broke up with him. He posted another girl two days after. I cried. I got sick.
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