I’m a 24-year-old girl. I had a boyfriend who was loving and caring when we started the relationship. He told me he had two kids with his baby mama but wasn’t married. I sought advice before entering the relationship, and I was told there was no big deal in it. We went on with the relationship, but a year into it, he ghosted me for three months. He eventually came back and apologized. I took him back because I loved him so much. A year and six months into our relationship, he told me his baby mama was pregnant again and had given birth to a baby girl.
I was so confused. He begged me, saying I was his babe forever and he wasn’t going to let me go. I continued with the relationship because I loved him so much. Some days, he would leave me, not talk to me, and wouldn’t reply to my messages or calls. I would be the one begging him, asking what I had done wrong. We dated for three years and some months, but he really affected my mental health.
I cried a lot because of him, so I decided to let things go by dating another guy to forget about him. The new guy I’m dating now isn’t showing me love and lacks communication. Then, my ex came back again, saying he really loves me, no one can love me the way he does, and his baby mama left him with nothing. He says he can never go back to her. Rantandtalkz family, please advise me. What can I do?
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