My man has always been hiding his phone, but I am not the type that gets bothered. Even at work, I always brag that he can never cheat on me because we have been through thick and thin together, and I have always stood by him. I always tell him that if he is cheating, God will expose him one day. I have never slept or cheated since our five years together because I believe I chose the best and I don’t want to increase body count. Fast forward to a month ago, I got a call that he was in some kind of situation. He called me, and the issue took three days to resolve. I went there to see him from work immediately after closing, praying to resolve the issues that day, but I couldn’t. I had to take a day off from work. Fortunately, the issue escalated, and he was asked to give me his phone. It took my man five hours to show me his password. When he did, I saw messages from a lady saying she had been calling him with no response and asking for forgiveness. I was calm. Then the lady called and asked who I was.
I told her I was his sister and that he was hospitalized and needed financial assistance. She said she would be praying for him. After 30 minutes, another call came claiming she was his babe and that they had been dating for a year. I told her the same thing. She said she would visit when she had time and asked for the address. I told both I would call at night when I got home, which I did. They both said they had been texting him on WhatsApp, but I wasn’t seeing any messages. I checked the call list on WhatsApp, clicked their names, and found their chats were locked. Since I had the password, I saw messages where he was professing love and sending money to them while I was being the understanding babe. The money part pained me. I checked further and saw over 20 contacts. Four he was in relationships with, one for two years, another a year, another six months, and me five years. I got angry and added everyone to a group using his phone and told them our man was sick and needed financial assistance. No one came through. I was insulted, called desperate and insecure, and told all men cheat.
I called his mom and friends and said I was done and wanted to break up. His mom knelt down begging, and his friends and him begged too. My salary was slashed to half that month, and I spent close to N200k on the issue. My friends are saying nothing is outside and I should forgive, but I am growing hatred towards him, and seeing him doesn’t excite me anymore.
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