I need to vent about my current relationship, which is over three years old. Lately, it’s been all about fights and arguments. Five months ago, I caught my girlfriend texting men online for money. She even asked a guy to meet up because I stopped giving her money. When I’m broke or not giving her money, she gives these men attention, claiming they’re just friends, which I’m not okay with. I believe that, in a serious relationship, she should set boundaries and not entertain flirty conversations with men who only want to sleep with her. She lives with me because I’ve been helping her through school, but now she doesn’t want to leave.
She doesn’t even respect me in my own home. She told another man she’s single and living with a roommate. When I try to talk to her, she accuses me of having anger issues or being insecure. Now, our relationship is toxic, and I feel I should have left earlier, but I wanted to work things out. It seems she’s not willing to change. I’ve invested a lot in her, even sponsoring part of her education. She claims to love me, but I feel she’s using me and will leave when she finds someone better. I’ve decided to stop supporting her financially because I’m mentally exhausted. She shows no interest in my personal growth—it’s always about her. I love her, but this relationship is draining me. I just want to focus on myself now because I need to pull myself up.
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