Hi Rant Family. Please, I need this to go up before it’s too late. My girlfriend and I might soon go our separate ways, and I need honest advice. I’m a guy in a relationship of over two years. My girlfriend is everything many men pray for. She’s beautiful, well-spoken, wife-material, not baddie type, she cooks, cleans, and treats me well. But here’s my problem. From the start till recently, I was handling about 85% of our financial responsibilities, food, and basically taking care of her. Now we’ve both just graduated, and next is NYSC. We even plan to work our postings to the same location. But deep down, I know if we go ahead, I’ll still be the one paying for rent, feeding, and every other expense. I’m just a young hustler with no financial support from my family or hers.
The little money I make now is supposed to be for building myself, not carrying two people at once. I just wish she had her own income, but the reverse is the case, and I’m stuck. I’ve been thinking about it nonstop, and it’s stressing me out. The truth is I love her, but I want to focus on my life. I want to use my money to invest in myself without thinking of another person’s daily needs. Since I started watching JJ, MKO, and Gehgeh videos, my mindset has changed. I don’t think I need any relationship right now until I’m fully ready for marriage. Guys, ladies, advise me. Should I stay or should I go?
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