I have this guy I met on Instagram. He replies to my stories, and fast forward to one month ago, I went to his house for the first time. He came to pick me up from mine. I got to know he’s staying in the same area I’ll be moving into that week. I told him, and he was so happy, saying we are close to each other. I moved to my house, but I couldn’t sleep there yet, and he offered I could come stay at his place for a week. But I politely declined because I’m not ready for anything sexual with this guy, so I only spent a night there and left for my friend’s place the next morning. He always reached out, asking about the update on my apartment. Two weeks after I finally moved into my place, we had light and water issues, so I had to go to my female friend’s place to charge my gadgets once in like three days because I haven’t gotten a generator.
So he got to know about the whole situation because the light issue has been going on for two weeks now, and he told me I’m always welcome at his place if I ever want to come. I just said thanks. Then one night, he messaged me and asked if I had light now. I told him no. He said I could come to his place. Honestly, I couldn’t decline because my gadgets were down, and I hadn’t even had my bath. I was also trying my best not to always go to my female friend’s place because I had spent two weeks there initially. I know boundaries. So he came to pick me up late at night to his place. I charged my phone and other gadgets, and it was time to sleep. Before he came to pick me up, he told me in chat that he really likes me and wants to be with me.
I told him until I know where we stand, we can’t be s£xual because I don’t do situationships and all, and he said he also wants to be serious with me. So I told him time will tell. Back to me in his house, he tried kissing me, which I politely declined. He gave me a robe to put on so I don’t sleep in my outside clothes. The robe was big, so I made sure I had it tightly covering my body so as not to give any s£xual impression. Anyways, we made out. Trust me, I didn’t want any of that. I was too tired; I just wanted to sleep or go back to my house. He kept on disturbing me, and I kept on pushing him off politely. I even told him we could make out but no s£x (I said this over a hundred times). Long story short, this guy forcefully had his way with me.
I was begging and crying; he didn’t stop. He overpowered me and held my hands. When he eventually stopped, I got up, wore my clothes, and ran to the door. He ran after me and claimed I couldn’t go anywhere because it was late. I said if he didn’t open the door, I would scream for his neighbors to hear. He dropped me at home and kept telling me he didn’t r@pe me, telling me we are automatically in a relationship. This guy said a lot of bu||$hit and was even gaslighting me, telling all he ever did was show me care. I was just crying. I got home the next morning. He kept texting and calling, acting like everything was fine. Anyway, I was going to let everything slide and leave him to God, but I got angry and decided to file a report and take it up.
Trust me, I have all the right connections. I told them everything and asked if I have a case. They said I do because you know how Nigerians will tell you, “Oh, you went to his house, what were you expecting?” I told two of my close friends. They asked me to call the case off and leave him to God. I told the guy working on my case to hold on. I went to the hospital and did the necessary tests. Please, you guys, I don’t know what to do. Deep down, I don’t want to be the reason for any guy to go to jail. I’m also very pissed and disgusted as to why he did that to me. Should I let him off, take up the case, or send him the letter from the Lagos State government just to scare him and then block him? What can I do, please? I really want revenge or to make him swear, but at the same time, I want to let him be. I’m confused, please.
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