I started dating my boyfriend as a virgin; I was 18 then. It’s been 3 years now and I have been faithful. I have been the one sponsoring everything—feeding, aside from rent. He used to hit me before, but he doesn’t now and I don’t think he could again. I told him I’ll lock him up and collect the properties I bought. I helped him buy some properties when he relocated to a new house—like 20% of the properties during that period. I’m not entitled, but he could have sent me N20k, and he didn’t. I even sent N500k when he was relocating. Little did I know his brother sent him about N7 million. I had been an understanding girlfriend for long.
Secondly, he chats girls like mad, but he doesn’t cheat because he no dey see money, and I believe he will once he starts seeing money. He asks girls for nudes. Right now, I’m tired of the sponsorship. Seems he’s not trying to improve his life. We live together. We rarely have sex—like we’re in love to the extent we don turn brother and sister in each other’s eyes. I suggested moving out, he accepted, and he’s helping me run the house stuff like the difficult parts, but not financially.
But my plan is to cut him off once I move out. I had met some of his family members, and he wants us to marry. I know he loves me, but no be love we go chop. I got myself a 14 Pro Max, and he wants me to take his 11 and give him the 14. I already have a 12 Pro Max, and I don’t like the way he’s going about it. Should I cut him off once I move out or should I stick with him? That nude part is a breaking point for me and he is at his lowest now.
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