Hi Rantz. I’m 22. Around June this year, I found out my boyfriend of 3 years was cheating on TikTok. I already knew he was cheating but needed proof. I was living with him then and our sex life was bad. On his birthday in May, I gave him my iPhone 14 Pro Max (bought in February) and took his iPhone 11. I already have 2 12 Pro Max. When I found out about the cheating, I moved out, took back my iPhone and took everything. After moving out, I returned everything except the phone. During the breakup, I met a girl I wanted to try something with. We clicked, she asked me out, and this girl showed me love my ex never did. Took me on a date. My ex used to hit me but this girl made me know my value. She’s not financially buoyant but tries. Since then, my ex keeps coming to my house begging. I accepted him back with conditions but my “stud” doesn’t know. I recently gave her an iPhone 12 Pro Max that my brother gave me as a gift. My question: my ex (now boyfriend) is still feeding off me financially.
I also help my “stud” financially. But I don’t really see a future with the girl (“stud”) because we can’t marry but I deeply love her. At the same time, I don’t want to lose my ex. He has changed drastically, gets stuff for me even though he doesn’t have the means. He swore in front of his family not to touch me again. He supports emotionally. My “stud” doesn’t know I’m back with him. Should I tell her or continue hiding it? Should I continue with she and my ex, given his brokenness is affecting me? My boyfriend already knows about her and gives me time to cut ties with her.
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