I will try to make this short. I dated a guy for two years before he went to jail for four years and three months. Along the line, I met another guy because I couldn’t wait for him since he didn’t ask me to or promise me anything. So, I started dating the new guy and eventually fell helplessly in love with him. Now the other guy is out, and I no longer have feelings for him, but he still wants me back. I don’t want to be with anybody out of pity or whatsoever. The new guy I was dating had a baby mama, and I don’t have the strength to have issues with anyone because of a man.
So my ex heard about the whole thing and called to know how I got entangled with a guy who has a child with another woman. I had to explain to him how the whole thing started. He called and said we should talk and probably get back together because he still loves me. So, I went to see him, though nothing happened between us because the love and feelings were no longer there. I was just there to see how things would turn out. I didn’t even know this guy had naked pictures of me when I was changing or about to change because I always had this feeling that whenever I’m sleeping, someone is always shifting my clothes to video me. So, I had to watch him open his phone, and I crammed his password. I opened his phone, and what I saw got me angry.
I had to ask him why, and his foolish and silly reason was that he did that in case he missed me, so he could watch the video and be okay. But before then, I had deleted everything before asking him that, and since then, he’s been begging me to forgive him. I don’t want to have anything to do with him again because I know he has an ulterior motive for such an act, but since then, he’s been begging and saying he’s sorry. Should I just move on, or forgive him and see if he has changed like he said?
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