I’m a 25 years old guy going to 26 and I own a boutique business and other businesses. I have a girl that I have been crushing on since my ND days in 2018 but we started dating during my HND days when I started my boutique business. When we started dating and I saw things are going well with us, I gave her some money and she said her mom should thank me. I told her it’s not necessary but I spoke with her. After the call she asked me what my plan for her is and I let her know my pure intentions, that if she’s ready to marry me with my rules I’m ready to marry her always. I only asked two things from her, which is respect and s€x, because I love s€x and I wish to have it everyday, which I promised her everything and I’m still doing till date. She answered me that she’s ready to respect and she promised to give me s€x three times a week which I agreed to. Fast forward to 2025, after we finished school, we had a baby and after that I believe she always looks at me less because whenever I approach to kiss or hug her she will reject me, talk less of s€x.
Meanwhile I always remind her of our agreement, she should remember I still keep it up till date, but she will just say okay and nothing else will change. Sometimes I’ll wake her up to talk to her but no changes. Now her parents are demanding that she should find a job to do, that they know I’m trying my best for her but they didn’t born a sit-at-home daughter. So I opened a shop for her and we are planning to get married next year but till now nothing changes from her own perspective to me. There’s no welcome greeting from her. If I go out and go back home, she will just open door and go back inside. I think the reason why we went to school is to be literate but she is still behaving like those old age women. What I want you to advise me is should I go on with the wedding or should I watch her small maybe she will change or should I break up now? Please I need advice.
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