I was with my ex for 3 years. We broke up last year before he ended things and moved on quickly. It broke me because I truly thought he was the one. Months later, he started coming back, sending me money, inviting me over, acting like he missed me. I later found out he already had another girl while trying to reconnect with me. I’ve been celibate since the breakup, but lately I’ve had strong urges, and he knows how to satisfy me. I’ve been tempted to go back just for the sex and block him afterward, but I know myself—I’ll likely catch feelings again and get hurt all over. I’ve been stuck in this emotional mess for over six months, torn between physical desire and emotional self-protection. A part of me thinks, “Maybe I should just go, enjoy it, and block him afterward.” But I also know myself. If I go back, especially after being intimate, I’ll likely catch feelings again and fall right back into the cycle I’ve been trying to escape. So now, I’m asking myself: Should I go back to my ex, even if it’s just for the sex, or should I truly let it all go for good?
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