So I met this guy through his brother December 2022. Let’s call him (Joe). He didn’t ask me out but we started talking till I gained admission January 2023, and he came to visit me in school once. Since then, I started going to his place. The last time I went to his place, I got pregnant and I aborted it. I went to a friend’s place for a week because I didn’t want anybody to know in my hostel that I had an abortion. After sending money for the abortion, he only checked on me twice, but I liked him a lot. Anytime I asked him for money or anything, I had to remind him like 20 times before he sends it, and he would only send N2k. So, I stopped going to his place and I met a guy in school September 2023 and we started dating. He told me to stop talking to Joe, which I did, and I blocked him too. We started dating until he found out what really happened between Joe and me, and he was really annoyed. He was also with his ex at those times, too, and I told him to stop talking to his ex, which he did. Then Joe texted me with another number, my boyfriend caught us, warned me, and I blocked him. Then I got serious with my boyfriend.
He even changed my phone and spent a lot on me until Joe texted me again on Instagram. My boyfriend caught me, asked about it, and I lied to him. He hit me for almost five hours, and nobody came to rescue me from him. He apologized the second day, and I forgave him. I stopped going to his place, and he collected the phone he bought for me. So, I got a small phone. Meanwhile, he was cheating with two girls in different departments, which I didn’t complain about. I texted him that even though Joe is stingy to me, I would choose him over you. He came to my hostel and beat me again. I had to let the school know, and they interfered in the matter. We finally broke up. Now Joe is back, he said he likes me, and my ex is also asking me to come back. What do I do?
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