So, I’ve been dating this guy for 1 year and 6 months. He has been married before, and he told me his ex was abu$!ve and a cheat. I really love this guy, but the only problem I have with him is that he has trust issues. He made me chase away my friends, he doesn’t want me to go out, and he doesn’t even want me to associate with anyone. Each time I do anything without telling him, he starts accusing me. He does not want me to mingle in the affairs of my family. He was really stressing me out. One day, he insisted I leave my cousin unconscious in the hospital simply because he didn’t trust me. I told him I couldn’t, and he sent his friend to the hospital to confirm if I was telling the truth. His friend saw my cousin and confirmed I was being honest. Still, he instructed his friend to take me home, but I refused, and he stopped talking to me.
I was so angry and wanted to break up with him, but he apologized. If I tell him I’m out, he will want me to turn on my camera, and he will insist on speaking to whoever I’m with. I have a feeling that he will abu$e me physically if we get married. He stays in the UK. My cousin got tired and tracked down his ex-wife, and the woman said this guy abu$ed her so badly—even when she was pregnant, he b£at her up. She said so many other things that I can’t start typing because the story is just too long. Should I believe this woman, or is she just hurt? What scares me the most is that I just found out he was still living with this woman when we started talking, and I didn’t know. He didn’t even heal from his divorce before he started talking to me. The truth is, he’s not mentally okay, and when I asked him to see a therapist, he insulted me. What should I do?
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