I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year. I found out she had two other people (married men) after I hacked her phone. She confessed to me and told me it was for money and nothing intimate had happened with them. I confirmed one, but the other one I know they have been intimate. She even knew that one before we started dating. These men together have given my babe more than 30 million naira from her account records in less than 6 months… no jokes. I wonder what she sees in me, because she is a very pretty girl with a nice shape. Before, she used to even open up and give me updates then. I noticed she was hiding one of them; the man spoils her with gifts and money, takes her on trips, no be small. The money sef, we dey use an chop, she buys me gifts, and she pays her fees.
I was always talking her out of it because she had a job. I knew I was sharing her with them, but too many responsibilities and pressure were on her head. I wanted to marry this girl, I swear; she tried for me. When I was sick and on the verge of losing my life, she really stood by me when no one was there and gave me morale. She was helping me with a lot of things till I got back on my feet. I was always in a haste to see her; she never judged my situation, neither did I. I couldn’t do much for her as I didn’t have much, but she used to ask me for small things like dates and gifts. I wasn’t really doing it because I was angry, and I felt she earned more than me, so she didn’t understand. She used to beg me for effort, which, to me, I was doing enough considering my situation.
We had a couple of serious fights; our families didn’t want us together, and she found out about an ex who was still in my life and whom I was initially planning to marry before I met her. The lady told my babe a lot of things that complicated issues between the families. She said my family doesn’t like her because she’s Muslim. Anyway, I decided to move on from her as I was not feeling it anymore, and I met someone who is a Christian. My babe decided not to let go and started begging that she was sorry for everything and didn’t want to lose me. I have never seen her like this; she said she was willing to stop seeing these men, but she needed effort from me. It was already late.
To be honest, I was taking the other girl on dates and doing everything she asked for that I wasn’t doing before. She was hurt that I was doing the things she asked for with someone else. She begged me for about 2 months, and I did see changes, but I didn’t leave the other babe. I was running them together. I was treating my girl badly, I won’t lie; I would disrespect her and treat her badly in front of my friends sometimes. I was really hurt. I even told her I didn’t ask her to stand by me when I was sick, something I regret saying now. She would cry and beg. She eventually told me we should have the break I was craving for, saying no matter what, I can’t trust her or love her the same. She left. I thought I was okay, but man, I miss this girl so much.
I don’t have the courage to call her that I want her back; I just stalk her page. I want to reach out to her, but each time I do, she has blocked me everywhere. My friends are telling me to forget her. I wish I even got her pregnant. What do I do?
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