What’s the cause for my girl to be avoiding me online? Like, I’d send her messages, and she wouldn’t reply, but she’d be posting on her status. Last night, I sent her money even without her asking. She was obviously online when I sent the money but didn’t reply. So, earlier today, she sent “Good morning” messages and all. I asked her about not seeing my message last night, and she said she had slept off. Meanwhile, she still posted on her status even after I sent her the money and a message if she got it. So, I told her to check her opay that I sent her money. She was like, “Seen N5k. Thanks.” Is that the kind of appreciation I deserve? So, I sent her a message that; “Is that how to appreciate someone?”
Next thing, she’ll say I shouldn’t start with my argument, that it’s too early, she just woke up. So, she said should she send the money back? Even if it’s too early, is that how y’all females show appreciation? Moreover, this isn’t her first time doing this, but this morning’s own really got to me. ‘Cause I literally needed money for myself, and I had the chance to share what I had into two. She didn’t even appreciate my efforts. What do y’all think might have caused her weird behavior? I didn’t offend her, and she gaslights too much and is never ready to make corrections. Please, I need advice from y’all. Thank you.
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