I had been dating this guy for over 2 years and I just discovered that he was cheating the first year. We started dating in February 2022 online and we didn’t meet till November 2022. During that first year, there was a girl he was always posting. He never posted me but I didn’t have a problem with that because I don’t post him. I complained over and over again about his closeness with this girl and he always told me I was “overreacting” and sometimes he’d get angry that I didn’t trust him. Only for me to discover last week that they were dating for about a year. Even the day we met for the first time, they were s€xting. I discovered they have been exchanging nud€s and fantasizing about how they wanted to fuck themselves. They were communicating up till April 2023. The funny thing is I don’t even know if I was the side chick. This guy was always accusing me of cheating and I never cheated. I cut off my male friends because of him and his constant accusations because I respected the relationship. Many times I felt tired of the relationship but I still stayed because I felt he loved me and would never cheat on me not knowing he has cheated. To say I’m broken is an understatement.
When I even approached him about it he denied and even got angry until I showed him proof, he then started giving stup!d excuses. His excuse was that he thought I wasn’t going to stay in Nigeria because I was meant to travel out for school, so he didn’t want his heart broken. He could have just ended the relationship if he didn’t think I was going to stay instead of wasting my time. Even the girl wasn’t also around. It was kind of a distant relationship but they met once in a while. He kept defending himself that as long as they didn’t have $ex he didn’t cheat, that it was just d!rty texting and there’s nothing there but according to the chat, he asked her out. I just blocked him because I’m heartbroken and tired. He might even read this because he follows this page but that’s his business. My friend said I overreacted about the whole situation because it’s a thing of the past but I know I didn’t. This guy made me look stup!d. He was manipulative and was always gaslighting me. Many times I would apologize for bringing up her matter because he would get angry that I didn’t trust him. Dear women, that “she’s just a friend” friend is not just a friend. Anyway bye.
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