Hi Rantz Family, what can I do in this situation? I have two girlfriends. One is a full Muslim but in a long-distance relationship, and the other is a Muslim-Christian, close-distance relationship. But to be honest, I love the Muslim-Christian more and more because despite how much I just want to focus on the full Muslim girl, I don’t love her as much as I do the Muslim-Christian one. My feelings for the full Muslim one are always temporary—loving her today, liking her tomorrow, or not loving her at all. Now, the full Muslim one is pregnant, and I have given every hint to her that I’m not ready to settle with her. She wants to abort the pregnancy but doesn’t want to, forcing the marriage on me by doing the needful, saying abortion will cause this and that, which I know is because she doesn’t want to abort it and wants to settle down with me by fire by force—all because she is ready, thinks she’s not getting younger, and says she loves me.
But she doesn’t have any source of income, and I don’t too. She just believes there is one magic I will perform to support the marriage. All the bills are on me now, and it’s choking me. I’ve discussed every hint and style to talk to her to get it aborted. Now she said she wants to leave, that she will work to cater for the baby—which I can’t accept because I want to father my child but not just fully with her, and I’m not ready to have a kid outside nor have kids with different women. So what can I do? What kind of by-force marriage have I put myself into like this? Because I really want to enjoy my marriage, but I’m not sure I can enjoy it with her. I don’t plan to be a womanizer or a cheater, but if I later settle with her, I might end up becoming one. I’m confused.
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