I know some of you will say trash, bla bla bla, she’s not my wife, she’s not this, she’s not that. But Nigerian girls will want a guy to play the role of a father and husband in a relationship while they will be hesitant about playing the role of a wife in a relationship. I had issues with my girlfriend. She cooked stew a few days back and something happened which I wouldn’t like to talk about so this won’t be too long. Something happened and I threw the stew away. That day, I was very angry. Mind you, I gave her money to cook it. Ever since, she said she doesn’t want to cook for me again because she’s not my wife, which I agree and understand. But she expects me to still be playing the role of a husband? I love this girl so much and na she I for like marry and spend the rest of my life with. But these days, she is taking my love for granted. Guys, learn from my story. Even if you love a girl so much, don’t tell her. Don’t let her know. Na wetin I dey face these days for this relationship.
Ever since she know I love her so much and being scared to lose her, she has become nonchalant and she developed this I-don’t-care attitude. I am now the one who puts effort to make the relationship stand. But I am going to break up with her. I can’t take it no more. I think she is tired of the relationship and I don’t think the stew which I threw away is the reason for this her attitude. Make I tell una something. Una fit swear for me sha. This is a girl that I have caught cheating on me like 2 to 3 times and I forgave her and let go. I no revenge, nothing nothing. But now I throw away stew, your attitude and everything change. It’s well.
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