I started talking to my serious babe this year, during which she first said she didn’t want to date because she was seeing other people at the time but lied about it and lied about living close to me because, in her words, she was afraid I’d choke her up. Eventually, one thing led to another, and she said she wanted to date. We started dating, during which she cheated again. She would be accusing me of cheating up and down, considering she’s the one with a track record. I would even give her my phone severally to check and still give reassurance. She could just say she thinks I want to k!dnap her or harm her. If I try to touch her phone by mistake, she would shake and grab it.
You would go through her chat, and if she’s not talking about sex to a guy, she’s sending nudes to a girl, talking to her ex, or posting her ass on the Internet. She’s so secretive about general things. All while I’ve been nothing but caring and understanding. I do have my flaws, but I was deliberate about her happiness. Anyways, eventually, the whole thing started to get to me, and I was thinking about it, and the next thing she said was if I’m tired or can’t accept her “flaws,” I should leave. And I left because I believe if someone tells you to, then they don’t like you. Flaws would be like not closing the toilet seat etc. Flaws are not lies, infidelity, and constant accusations. Those are red flags, not flaws. I know she will read this. You need to do better, Miss.
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