My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. During that 3 years of relationship, we’ve broken up twice, and she’s always the one coming up with “let’s break up.” I really love her so much, and I don’t want to lose her. She has a male best friend. She knew her best friend before me. I’ve told her I don’t want her to be close to him, but she disagreed. I overlooked it because it would turn into something else I wouldn’t like. I do complain about her best friend because it’s getting too much, and anytime I complain, she says I’m doing too much, I’m this, I’m that.The first time we broke up was because she found out I had sex with another girl.
We broke up for 2 weeks or so. Then she went ahead to date her male best friend. They had sex but later broke up because they weren’t fit for each other. Then we got back together again. During the few months we were together, she changed. I couldn’t have access to her phone anymore. I thought it was nothing, though. Then I went back to my parents’ house in Lagos during my one month there. She texted me one day saying she was no longer interested. I was like, “just like that?” She said yes, she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore, or love for me anymore, and that she’s done with me.
I was pained. She advised me to move on. I tried, but I couldn’t. I kept texting her, hoping she would change her mind and come back together. All of a sudden, we got back together again, but I was scared because I knew she might break my heart, 💔 and I know she will. All because of the love I had for her, I decided to give it a try again. During that time, I had this feeling she was double-dating, but there was no way for me to find out because I wasn’t close to her location. Today, I decided to hack into her Snapchat account, and then I found out she’s in another relationship with another guy, and I do send her money. Guys, what should I do?
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