I have been dating this girl since some years back and everything was fine and all. I loved and still love her but we’ve been having some issues recently since 3 months now. It all happened when I first noticed that she always texts two different guys. When I confronted her about one of the guys, she said she got nothing to do with him, that he’s younger. Same thing with the second one also, that she got nothing to do with them, that they are just friends and they never met before. To cut it all short, I found out that one of the guys, they’ve been having something together even before she met me, even when we were dating, but she said they are not dating but can’t explain what they are doing together. We even fought about this particular issue that led to something else. Till 2025, they still talk and all until I knew everything. Aside from that guy, there’s another one also that they had something together but that one cheated on her, that’s why she left. But they’ve started talking back also and I saw it and confronted her. Not that I’m not doing anything for this girl ooo, I do and overdo even at my lowest. I’m always there for her but it’s well.
Anytime I complain about what she’s doing, she will be like I’m insecure and all and start posting all these relationship and single quotes to justify her behavior and attitude. Anytime she’s facing hard time at work, I will always be the one she will pass all these memes against attitude and mood swings to. Even if na my last card dey, I go still send am to make the girl happy. I do everything to make her happy. She turned me to an insecure man, which I’m not before. I never doubted her from the beginning, not until I saw those chats and all, and everything I’m saying comes with proof. I just don’t know what to do anymore. You don’t have anything to do with these people and you keep collecting money from them, and you expect them not to disturb you or invite you over? Not making sense. I had to stop complaining and all because I’m broke but still yet my mind can’t take it. She’s a good girl though, but all these that I’m just getting to know is crazy. As we are stopping one, another one dey come up. Can’t you block them? You can’t date them, they are your ex. Stop collecting money from them and move onto the next, abi.
She even said it to the extent say na my brokenness dey make her do all that. Lol. And it’s okay. To God who made me, I faced many challenges since I have been dating this girl. Lost my car, lost my business, lost many things. Challenges wey I have never witnessed in my life before, it happened and still happening, and I never even think maybe na she dey cause am or something, but right now everything is just coming to my head due to what she’s doing and all. Even throwing everything I’m doing to my face. She always make it feel like I’m the problem or something. Just had to cut it all short but in conclusion, I need help and I don’t know what to do.