So the very first time I had sex was in 2022, with my boyfriend. I didn’t feel anything or enjoy it—just a little pain—and I told him. He just reassured me, saying it’s because it’s my first time, that gradually it will be enjoyable. Fast forward to today, I haven’t felt a thing while having sex. I don’t feel the penetration. I don’t know what sex feels like, and it’s been disturbing. I have lost many relationships because of this, because I’m not willing to have sex in the relationship, and the guys always end it. I have this fear that I won’t be able to conceive. I have tried using a vibrator on my clitoris; I get orgasm most times. The problem is with the penetration. So please, any form of advice will be appreciated. I have seen a gynecologist too—no improvement. I don’t know if I’m the only girl passing through this.
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