My Rantandtalkz family, please help me. I had sex with someone in the talking stage, and I felt like entering the ground. I’ve been in the talking stage with this sweet guy since December. We’d been talking before December, but we got serious with it from December. I had always refused to go on dates with him because I kept saying I was not ready and I didn’t want to start what I couldn’t finish or be heartbroken in the end. But this guy is everything I want in a man. He communicates well, has emotional intelligence, and wants to help out. Like, he literally will remind me of things I need to do if I forget. You know when you meet who you really want, but you want to take your time. We’d postponed the dates because of me, and he said he’d wait until I was ready. Ah! Sweet man. I don already dey brag sef say na my final bus stop be this one. One time he showed up in my church because I mentioned my church.
He wanted to drop me off that day, but I preferred him to stop me at my junction instead. But he wasn’t happy with how I’d enter bike when he could just drop me off at my place. He got me things, and most time, I send someone to pick them up from him at my junction because I didn’t want him to know my place yet. Omo! This guy is just sweet and a good listener, not all those who don’t know how to communicate. On Valentine’s Day, he wowed me with, a spa date, gift, and money. I got him gifts too. Before Val, he came to my place, and a few things happened, like kisses here and there and smooching. We almost had sex sef, but he was the one that made us stop because he knew I was ovulating and it might be why I really wanted it. This was still during the talking stage oo, and I’d been the one saying I didn’t want to go on a date yet and all. He’d always say he’s ready to wait for me until I’m ready.
But omo, I’ve fallen in love during the talking stage. The last time he came to my house, we couldn’t hold it, and we had sex. Now, I’m feeling all ashamed and less even though he doesn’t see it that way. But it’s just me, and in my head, I’ve just been overthinking whether this would be the end and nothing more. In fact, after he left, I refused to pick up or answer him, and he’s been texting. But till today, I’m still feeling cheap and less, and that he might not take me seriously to the next stage, even though the day we had sex, we were already picking the dress that he’d get for me for our next date. Now I’m so ashamed. Please help me. Do people have sex during the talking stage, and does it ever end well?
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