I’ll keep this brief, but I need y’all’s sincere advice. Unfortunately, my husband and I moved to the UK last year, and what we met was not what we expected—a big, stressful shock. We are well-to-do in Nigeria (house, business, etc.). It started with my husband always complaining about the kind of work he’s doing (to wipe yansh) and the same for me. We struggle to get little things done. It’s not like Nigeria where, within a twinkle of an eye, things get done. Now, we plan on going back. Family and friends are saying we shouldn’t because of the future, and I am due to give birth in October.
But I can see how depressed my husband gets every day, and I also don’t find this place fun at all. My husband plans on leaving first to check if Nigeria is okay for us to return to, or I could stay back with the baby to get a British passport for our unborn child, which is a long thing (5 to 7 years). Besides, my marriage is still very new. From my side, I’m facing pressure from my family to stay alone with my baby, while my husband comes every 4 to 5 months, which I’m not sure I can cope with alone. My husband is scared of a broken home. I need y’all’s sincere advice.
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