I met this guy in April 2023. He was Muslim, but at that point, I was single, so we started dating, which I never thought I would do because I’m Christian. Fast forward to October of that same year, he broke up with me with the excuse that his mom said she wasn’t cool with me being a Christian because we’d have problems in marriage. But later that year, around December, we reconciled and started dating again. This year in May, I met a new guy who also came from a Muslim family but is now a converted Christian. He’s intentional and so caring. You know how African parents are—they already asked about the two guys. The first Muslim guy is a no because he might marry a second wife, and there could be diversity problems among kids, which could lead to divorce.
The other, new Christian guy is cool. Mind you, the new Christian guy is aware of the Muslim guy but still stayed because he loves me so much. Now the problem is, what do I do? I don’t know how to leave the first guy because I love him so much. I need you guys to advise me, please. What if the new guy turns out to be the worst nightmare, because men h8te being the second option, or he changes at some point? And mind you, the Muslim guy smokes, and I don’t like it but I’ve been hoping he would stop one day. My family is against us marrying, but I still love him. Help me, guys.
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