Something happened that caused my boyfriend and me to break up impulsively. We still kept in touch and were very much in love because everything that happened was a misunderstanding. Before the breakup, we were already planning his Japa (relocation) for his MSc, and he was planning to take me along. However, due to the expenses, we agreed that he would go first, and we would both work hard so I could join him later. We had already planned our future together and were checking off most of the things on our list.
After the breakup, things weren’t easy for either of us. Our mothers even tried to intervene. It wasn’t easy. Fast forward to a few weeks before his travel, we became lovey-dovey again. We spent more time together, went on dates, and more. He visited my mom before he left, and we spent his last two days in Nigeria at his family’s house.
His family is everything I want in in-laws (while praying for a good man, also pray for good in-laws, because they make life and marriage easier). A day before his travel, he brought up the topic of how I felt about us now. I told him I was confused. He said he still loved me and kept telling me not to forget him, that we would see each other soon. That night and the morning before he left were very emotional. I asked him if we were fixing things, and he said “obviously,” but didn’t define anything.
He has been keeping me updated on everything he’s doing, but I can’t help the confusion and worry. I obviously love him so much, but I don’t want to hurt myself. I need opinions on whether I’m on the right track or if there’s a question I should ask him to be sure.
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