My bae and I were having a discussion over one of her friends whose boyfriend gave her N100k only for her to tell her boyfriend thank you. Just thank you. I overheard my babe correcting her that what she did was wrong, that he deserved more than thank you. She then tabled the matter to me and I said if I’m in the guy’s shoes, that will be the last or I’ll take that money back. That is why I don’t give women more than what they deserve in relationships. Then she went further to ask me if she doesn’t deserve N100k and I said no, not for now, maybe after marriage, but I can’t give what I’m not ready to lose because refund no dey for relationship. She got angry, which I noticed from her mood, and I tried to tell her not to get me wrong. She said I can give my sisters more than N100k and I replied that it’s because she is my sister and my family, which shows that I can give her if she becomes my family too one day. I can even go to any length. Then she went ahead and said is this how I was when she met me, that despite what she goes through with me. I replied, did she buy me garri wey I drink? Which I’m correct, because she has always felt she is part of everything I have.
I have a car which I just changed and got another, and I’m living fine and okay, sorting my bills and still taking care of my younger sister. So I asked her, na you buy my motor abi na you dey pay my rent? Which I’m right, because she never lifted a finger over what I have covered myself. But I have covered a lot for her. I do spend on her and if she needs anything I will provide and give her, but I have never given her N100k cash. Apart from that, I have done things more worthy than N100k. I changed her phones three times from 6 to X, Xs Max, and 11. I met her when she was using 6. Her school bills I catered for when she needed me. Outings, and she likes owanbe, na me still go cover am. I’d rather spend that thousand to get it for her myself than give it to her. So after I told her na you buy motor wey I dey use and so on, I stunned her and told her to get out. I want to know if I have done wrong to apologize and secondly, girls wey like to dey tell man “I suffer with you” when una no buy or do peanut, una dey give them credit say them suffer with una true true. Because this one no suffer at all, not to talk say she buy food once for house for me, and it’s a 3 years counting relationship.
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