Hi Rantz family. I need you people’s help as this is getting out of hand. All my life—I mean since I turned 18 and became a woman and started dating—every man that has asked me out or is attracted to me has always been a married man. I’m a 23-year-old law graduate and I’m looking forward to settling down before 25, after law school, but I don’t think it is possible. Please don’t judge me. I’ve gone to pray about this and was told I was destined to be a second wife, and I’m the kind of person that does not even like polygamy because I know what it’s like, because I’m from a polygamous home myself. Just that we all didn’t live together, but I still have horrible childhood experiences because I was born in a polygamous home. I’m currently in a relationship and, like you’d guess, it’s a married man. This man has made up his mind to wife me as his second wife, of which I don’t think I want. I’m doing okay for myself, but young and single guys are never attracted to me. It’s always the older and married guys. I don’t know what to do.
I have prayed, I’ve talked to God about it, but it just seems as though that is really my destiny—or is there something that I’m not doing right? Maybe that is what is affecting me. I’m really in love with this my current man, but I just wish deep down he was not married because he is just everything I’ve always prayed for and want in a man. But guys, he is married! I did a major surgery last year and this man was there for me, even while my family didn’t show up. We’ve been together for 15 months and it’s just as sweet as any relationship would be, but deep down I’m not at peace because he is married. I know some people would still judge me, but I’ve tried relationships with younger and single guys and it was nothing to write home about. I’ll be in the comment section for any advice or opinions. Thank you.
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