Not every marriage is a win. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of four years. Even before I got pregnant, there were a lot of ups and downs, but we kept coming back. He cheated on me countless times, and at some point, I got tired and ghosted him for months, but we still reconciled in the end, and I got pregnant. We have a year-old child, and I have a handwork. There was a girl he was cheating with, and he would keep telling me he was going to leave the girl every time I asked about it. If I should count, their relationship is now over two years. Fast forward, I still saw the same girl’s messages on my husband’s phone, promising her everything he has never done for me and our child.
This man is still denying and fighting me for going through his phone. Since then, everything has not been going well, and I think he’s not the right person for me. I have left home to go to school for the past two months, and there have been no calls—nothing. He doesn’t even care about his child. I’m just tired, for real. Typing this with tears, I didn’t plan my life like this. I’m not myself, but I know the best revenge is to work hard and take care of my child because this guy thinks I can’t do without him or his money. Sometimes when I feel sad, I only cry because of my baby, because I didn’t plan it like this, and I don’t want my baby to suffer.
I don’t have anyone to share this with, and I don’t want to disturb my parents and make them worry. Life is not easy normally, let alone going through things alone. I regret the day I met him because I didn’t plan my life like this. I pray my business keeps growing so I can become a popular businesswoman one day and take good care of my child. I have never once regretted having a child in my life. Please don’t insult me—what do you think I should do? He’s not ready to leave the girl, and I don’t want to be sad in my life again. Please, I’ll be in the comments section. Thanks!
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