Omo, I’ve been hearing about nonchalant partners but I couldn’t comprehend till I finally got into a relationship with one. This guy will not text more than twice in a day, and for the whole 3 months that we were together, we never discussed anything tangible. No romance from him. We only met two times and we both live in Lagos o, not even too far from each other. I was even putting in effort so he could know what I want in a relationship, yet no changes. I complained three good times about it and he would just promise to change but no visible changes. It’s not that I want us to be talking 24/7, but random “how’s your day going,” “where are you,” “hope you’re good” texts are just something to me. I have kuku blocked him everywhere because it’s not me that’ll be in a nonchalant relationship before it starts looking like I’m forcing things.
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