Why is my boyfriend a sadist? I have known my boyfriend for 4 years, yet we act as if we don’t know each other. Sometimes he’s sweet, sometimes he just acts like a sadist. So, I asked him what he would get for me for Valentine’s Day and I shared with him my plans of getting something for him. He began shouting at me, saying don’t I have problems? Na Valentine, I go chop? I was pained with that word! He said if I want Valentine, I should bring money to buy things and to take me out.
Omo, I’m still sad about that. Note that he has never bought anything for Valentine’s for me all these years. I’m the one who gives gifts, no matter how little. He only sends money, but no gifts, and the money is usually for a specific purpose. I don’t know what to do, I have saved up to gift him, should I leave the gift make we just dey? Omo, men ehn!