Hi fam, so I met this guy online and we started talking as good friends and we became so close that we talk on phone for hours. When we started talking, he never mentioned that he wants to date me or anything along the line. We went out on our first date and kissed. After few weeks, I visited him at home and he acted so loving, it felt like we were dating already. But I had it in my mind that we weren’t so I won’t confuse it for love. I fell in love with him and can’t do without talking to him a day. I would just feel empty. Then we started visiting each other frequently. He would come to my school and we go out together most times. Eventually we had sex and after then, I told him we cannot just be friends, that what are we doing exactly. He said that we are not friends but more than friends. I asked if it was FWB, he said no and I told him I don’t want a no label thing and he said we are courting but didn’t even ask me out. And most times when I ask what we are doing, he would just dodge the question. We’ve been together for 3 months now, acting like couples and he told me he loves me every time.
I don’t know what more to do. I have ghosted him for about 3 days and he just kept on calling me and trying to get my attention and I’d just fall back to him. The funniest part is how he does not even give me money whenever I ask him. Only whenever we want to go out on a date, he would pay for my outfit and stuff. I just need advice on what to do because he has the quality I want in a man but it seems like he is playing with me. Pls what should I do?
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