An old fling reached out to me. Since he was someone I never stopped liking we started talking almost every day, we’d talk on VC and all, we got really close. This guy told me he didn’t have a girlfriend, he was going through a lot and wasn’t mentally stable for a relationship. Lmao I was feeling really sorry for him even praying to God to see him through whatever it is that he might be going through. Three times I went to visit him; we had sex twice.
I’m really it to ask this question “what are we” but I had to ask him because I needed what we were having to be defined. He’d say he’s ready for a relationship ’cause he’s going through a lot, then he started with the late replies, no calls at all. He was giving me all the “I don’t want a relationship with you” signals, yet I ignored, thinking it was because he was going through something. Only for me to wake up one morning to seeing his anniversary post on his status. The girl is so beautiful and classy.
This guy never got me anything, even the money he promised me he never sent, except the transfer I used in going to visit him. My heart fell into my stomach; I thought I was dreaming. He got her gifts and all. I’m just 21 years old. What did I do to deserve this? Why didn’t he tell me he had a girlfriend? I need answers. He didn’t even block me from viewing it or anything. I already deleted his number, his pictures, unfollowed him. It’s been months and I still can’t get through it. Some days I feel like it is what it is; other days I feel like I need answers.
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