The issue is that my fiance got a new job in Australia, and his salary is very good pay (N17-N20 million) per month. Aside from this, he also has another job where he collects N350k twice a month, but it’s remote. He also manages other websites for some companies that pay him well. So if I’m to calculate what he earns monthly, it should be between N23-N25 million. The company he’s working for in Australia gave him free accommodation, which he’s the only one staying in (a 2-bedroom apartment), which has everything he needs, including a chef that will be cooking for him. I want to discuss with him about giving me N1 million every month as my monthly upkeep. Last year, he always gave me N50k as my monthly upkeep and randomly sent me money aside from the N50k. He was supposed to travel two months ago, but he was delayed for some reason. The company told him to start working in Nigeria last month, which he did, and he was paid at the end of the month.
I was there with him when they paid him his salary, which was N18.5 million. When I was leaving his place, he got me a lot of provisions, took me shopping, and gave me N100k as my monthly upkeep as I was leaving too. But I feel the N100k is too small for the amount he’s collecting. He told me he has increased my monthly allowance to N100k. The 100k has finished, and it’s not even the end of the month. What do you all think? I hope he won’t feel I’m an ingrate and I’m feeling too entitled to his money. I feel even if he removes N1 million from his account, he won’t feel it. We were discussing this morning, and he showed me the new car the company wants to get for him, which is N53 million. It will be deducted from his salary monthly, and it won’t affect him. So for him to get a car worth N53 million, how much is N1 million he can’t give me monthly? I just want to ask if I’m not too forward about this, can I go ahead to discuss it with him? Thank you.
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