This is what I am afraid of in life. My wife said she doesn’t want the marriage again because my family doesn’t love her. She didn’t tell me—she told her parents, but because we are having issues, she never tells me anything again. I have been begging and asking myself why she is really this mean to me. This is someone I love more than myself. I make sure I take care of her. I have been begging her till today since last year. Beside the family that she said they hate her, they ask me of only—my firstborn didn’t really want her because he’s gaining much from me and he thinks I’m going to stop because I’m getting married. But other of my brothers do ask me about her. I can’t lie, they don’t hate her—they’re just afraid if she’s really a good person like she’s displaying. But my wife knows I love her so much. My mum doesn’t really play with her—just normal. I know my wife is stubborn, but truth be told, my mum doesn’t joke with her. To cut the story short, the last time my brother called me last December 2024,
begging me that my father wanted to talk to me because I stopped talking to him for a long time. He was asking me something and something led to another thing. He was asking me why my wife doesn’t come over since I traveled because I don’t base in Nigeria. He said that I should tell her she should be coming, that they didn’t chase her away. I said okay but I didn’t tell my wife. I know she’s stubborn—she won’t listen. But only to my surprise to hear that she’s giving me all this character to chase me away. Ever since I heard that, I swear I have never been myself again. I get depressed every single time because I love this girl so much. I didn’t expect this from her. That she just wants to leave me because of my family. I’m really heartbroken already, asking God if I deserve all these things happening to me. I don’t really know what to do. I find it so difficult to move on. I just can’t. I swear I love her, but why will she treat me this way? I keep asking God and crying—why me?
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