I’m 27 and newly married, barely a year in. I’ll dive into the situation. I know my wife used to sm0ke before marriage, but she stopped because I don’t smoke, and she said she wanted to stop too. That was one of the reasons I went on to marry her, as I had told her I couldn’t marry a sm0ker. She was dedicated to quitting, which she did four months before I proposed. We got married and started living together full-time before realizing she was already pregnant. We have a son who is barely 4 months old now.
A few days back, I was using her phone for some business calculations when a message from her friend popped up, asking, “How many grams should I buy when coming?” I ignored it, thinking it could be anything. But then another message came in: “The guy doesn’t have it, I’m going to the other plug.” That’s when I started to suspect something was up, but I didn’t say anything. I gave her the phone back and went about my day. Later that night, I asked to use her phone again.
After some work, I checked the messages and discovered that she had started sm0king again. I’m disgusted and trying not to overreact because she’s still breastfeeding while sm0king. I’m looking for the best way to handle the situation. What do you all think?
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