So guys, I just want to drop this here. I married my wife before I traveled. This is my eighth month here now, but I make sure I take good care of her. I pay her N140k every week, excluding the money she uses to buy clothes, do her hair, and fix her nails. We’ve been having normal issues, like distance stuff, but I’m not playing here. I just want to make money and come back, as a young man of 27 years old with my wife. That has been my dream. However, the last time we had issues, my wife told her parents that she couldn’t continue with the marriage. The issue started because I lost a big amount of money. I told her I wasn’t in a good mood, but she kept disturbing me. She asked me for money, and I told her I didn’t have it that day. She called again, saying she needed money, and I shouted at her. We went six days without talking to each other. As the man of the house, I decided to settle things between us.
I called her mum to explain what happened. Her mum tried to fix things for us, but my wife didn’t accept, saying she didn’t want the marriage anymore. Mind you, I’ve never cheated on her or accused her of cheating, but she told her mum that I don’t trust her. I was surprised and asked her why she said such a thing to her mother. She just laughed. Fast forward to the New Year, I told my wife again that we should settle this issue and give ourselves a try this year. She said it was my business and that I should do my thing while she does hers. She added that anytime I come back, we can continue. Today, I told her my mum is coming to PH, and she said I should give her enough reason why my mum is coming to my house—the house I paid for. I was surprised. I told her that since my mum is coming to PH for something that won’t last even a week, she could stay at my house. She said I should tell my mum she won’t be around.
I explained that her sister, who stays in my house, would be there to assist my mum, but she still refused, saying I should tell my mum she’s traveling for no reason. I don’t know what to do or where this is leading. I’m seriously confused. I love her so much and have tried many times to work things out, but she keeps saying my family doesn’t like her. This is someone my mum doesn’t joke with. Does that even make sense? My brothers warned me, saying I didn’t really know her character and was rushing into marriage. I married her to assure her I’d always be with her, which I’ve been doing. I told her from the beginning that I travel and don’t base in Nigeria, yet she’s acting so mean now. I’m really disappointed because I know when my brothers hear this, they’ll laugh at me. I couldn’t believe she’d do this to me after all we’ve shared. Please, I need advice.
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