I want to know if this is common behavior for white men. I met a white man on a dating app, and we decided to connect outside the app. After a few days, he contacted me, but I was confused about who he was. He reminded me, and since then, for almost two weeks now, he has been calling me every night, and we talk for about three hours. He said he’s very busy and can only call at night. He just moved to Lagos five months ago. He said he has a project in Lagos, but he’s currently in the UK visiting his parents. He often prays for me on the phone and asks me to read Bible verses with him, which surprises me. Recently, he started calling me his wife and saying he wants to marry me. At first, I thought he was joking. He even knows some Yoruba and calls me sweet names in Yoruba like “iyawo mi” and “aya mi.”
I told him that he’s skipping steps and rushing into marriage, but he responded by asking where in the Bible it says to date. He also asked about my marriage plans, if I want to have children before marriage, and said he doesn’t want a court wedding. He even asked for my ring size after just two weeks. I’ve been praying for marital settlement, but this feels too fast. Is this how white men typically behave? Do they always rush things? We’re not even officially dating yet, and he’s talking about marriage. He mentioned he divorced three years ago because his wife tried to harm him, and they didn’t have any children. While he seems good, he is moving too quickly for me. I need time to get to know him better.
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