Guys, help me. I met this man online. He’s a married man with children. He’s well-to-do. I can’t mention his age, but with the age he told me, he looks older. Well, that’s not the problem. The issue is that when we first met, he was caring and we’d always text. He asked me out, and I said let’s try things out and see (I’ve never been in a relationship oh). He gets angry easily, and I try to manage him. He insisted we see each other just two days after we met online. I no gree. The world is dangerous. As usual, he got angry and said I shouldn’t bother seeing him again. I suggested we see each other in an eatery or something.
He declined and said what if his family member sees him. I close my mouth. About two days later, again, he requested we see each other. This time around I agreed, but I told him outright that there’d be no sex. Na so oga vex oh, that I shouldn’t bother coming again till we were comfortable meeting, and he wasn’t coming to pick me up again. Then I felt I was too hard, so I agreed. To cut a long story short, he picked me up that day and it happened (we had sex). Since then, oga just dey withdraw, dey give excuse. He texts me at 9 a.m. every morning, but since that day, he’s just been acting very busy and coming up with excuses like, “I’m home with my family,” “work meeting,” “I’m not always with my phone.” Like today, he hasn’t texted me, and it’s past 4 p.m.
I’m not even talking about the money aspect as per sugar daddy because he said everything has time (my birthday dey come sha), but I just feel used again. Like, isn’t there anyone in this world who can love you without the thought of sex being their utmost purpose? Guys, advice me, what should I do? Oga said I shouldn’t even have another guy. I’m permitted to have only him. How do I survive this interim relationship? Should I opt out? Make una no vex oh, I’m a guy. No vex.
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